ST. LOUIS TRIPOn Saturday, May 3, Chris and I, along with Curt Nicholson and Justin Lockhart, headed out for a day trip to St. Louis, Missouri. Curt kept us entertained the whole time with stories and discussion. :-) We stopped at a Waffle House for breakfast about an hour into the trip. Chris got me a Waffle House coffee mug there. (We collect coffee mugs from the places we travel, since my kitchen is decorated with a coffee/gingerbread man theme). When we arrived in St. Louis, we went to the St. Louis Gateway Arch. We watched a film on the Lewis and Clark Expedition. In watching that, we learned something that we hadn't known before. Did you know that Sacogowea - the Shoshone Indian woman that helped Lewis and Clark - was actually a captured slave? And did you know that when Lewis and Clark's expedition met up with the Shoshone Indians, Sacogowea learned that the chief of the Shoshone tribe was her BROTHER? I didn't know that, but I thought it was really cool that God had that all worked out for them!
ANYWAY, we also went to the top of the arch this time... not something you want to do if you are claustrophobic or scared of heights! (But really cool if you AREN'T!) Here are some pics:

Chris and I at the top of the arch - 630 feet in the air!

The windows that you can look out of... we were actually LYING down to look out the windows

Chris is now a CONEHEAD (and I think he's CRAZY!) :-P

Our second annual self-portrait (timed) at the Arch
From the Arch, we walked over to Busch Stadium, home of the St. Louis Cardinals. The Cards were playing the Chicago Cubs that day, and Curt is a Cards fan; Justin is a Cubs fan... good times! The weather was a little chilly at 60 degrees with a cool wind blowing through. Eventually the sun came out, and it was a much nicer day!

Here we are at the Stadium
UNWANTED GUEST
Sunday night, May 4, we came home from church and saw this big black spider dangling on it's web between some boxes/bags of tools in the front of the garage. When we pulled my car in, the headlights spotlighted the nasty thing. As we were walking in, I stopped to look more closely at the spider. The spider was hanging upside down on its web, and much to my dismay, I noticed a VERY VIVID red hourglass marking on its abdomen! YIKES! It's a black widow spider! I told Chris to come and look, but by the time I moved out of the way, and he got to where he could see it, the spider had crawled under the bag, and we couldn't find it. (That makes for a GREAT night's sleep for one who has crazy nightmares anyway!)
The next night, I decided to clean and spray the garage with a pesticide before we left at midnight for our trip to FL. Chris was catching a little shut-eye before driving the almost 9 hours. I proceeded to pull out all of the tools, and saw the spider on the floor with its legs all curled up like it was dead. I was relieved to know that it had not adventured into my house, and that it was already dead. I took a broom and swept all the dead bugs, spiders and dirt into a pile in the center of the floor, and then sprayed the area with bug spray. When I went to sweep the pile outside, I touched the what-I-thought-was-dead spider with the broom, and the spider's legs flew out to the sides! YIKES again... It was NOT DEAD! I ran inside and grabbed a glass jar and captured the spider. Now, I'm sure many of you are wondering WHY IN THE WORLD I DIDN'T JUST KILL THE THING! Well, I wanted to see for sure if it was a Black Widow spider, and I wanted Chris to see it. When I got it in the jar, I discovered that I was right the first time... it definitely is a Black Widow!:
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I didn't know that we had Black Widow Spiders around here, but apparently we do! I think that I've sucked up two more of them (before this) in the vacuum cleaner in the house, but I didn't see their bellies because they were up against the ceiling in our living room. (**
shudder**) Time to call TERMINEX!
PENSACOLA TRIP
At midnight on Mon night/Tues morning, Chris and I left for Pensacola, FL, for PCC's graduation. Chris' youngest sister, Tiffany, graduated with her Master's Degree in Bible Exposition from Pensacola Theological Seminary... with a 4.0 GPA! She is SO smart, but so humble about it... she's amazing! Chris' youngest brother, Jon, graduated from PCC with his Bachelor's in Business Management. He actually graduated in December, but walked in May. My youngest brother's wife, Caroline, also graduated with her Bachelor's Degree in Mathmatics. Caroline also graduated with honors! We are so proud of all of them.
On Tuesday morning, we met my bro&SIL, Nathan & Caroline at IHOP for breakfast. We spent almost 2 hours catching up with them.

From there, we headed over to Chris' brother's house, and hung out with his family for the rest of the day. 8 family members weren't able to make it, but we enjoyed the time with the other 13! We also got to meet our newest niece, Jacquline, who is 9 months old. I know that we're biased, but our nieces and nephews are ADORABLE! Here are some pics of the day:

Jacquline with me

Chris & Jacquline

Nathan, Kailey, & Kimberly

The gang at Logan's Steakhouse for dinner
That night we stayed at the home of our friends, Rob & Emily Hazewinkel. No pics of them, since they were so tired and dressed for bed, but here are their kiddos, Stephen & Katie. They are expecting #3.

The next morning we got up and make a VERY quick, 15 minute visit with our friends, BJ and Adrian Escamilla and their brand new baby girl, Peyton. The visit was so quick, I didn't get a pic of them, either.
From there we headed to graduation. Here are some pics of the graduates. Congratulations, you guys! :-)
My bro&SIL, Nathan & Caroline
Nathan, Caroline, me & Chris
(Nathan, Chris and I are slouching down so that Caroline looks taller!)
Tiffany & Jon
Chris' family that was at graduation
(his SIL stayed home with the younger kids)
MY FIRST MOTHER'S DAY
I was not looking forward to my first Mother's Day. In spite of the fact that we, as Christians, believe that life begins at conception, unfortunately we often do not recognize ladies that have been pregnant and miscarried, or even expecting moms as "MOTHERS" on Mother's Day. However, as soon as a lady is pregnant, she truly is a mother, whether or not she gets to hold that baby in her arms!
That said, I was struggling with that thought some the week prior to Mother's Day. On Monday, the 5th, I was at work. The little boy I work with was really sick, and very cuddly. As I was holding him on my shoulder, all of the sudden it hit me and I had an emotional meltdown! I started sobbing uncontrollably, and cried out, "God, I want a baby to hold SO BAD!" Poor D raised his head and looked at me like I had two heads! I only cried for a few minutes, and I was over it, but it was kind of crazy! I just kept thinking that I know that I'm a mom, but who else is actually going to recognize that?
Well, I have some very thoughtful friends/family members... and THEY recognized it! First of all, I got a Mother's Day card in the mail from my best friend on Thurs. Then, on Sunday morning, we were getting ready to walk out the door to go to church, and there is a card sitting on my purse. Chris told me I had to open it right away, so I did. It was a SUPER sweet (and funny) card, and inside he included a gift... he bought me plane tickets to go see my best friend over Memorial Day weekend! Not only that, but he had already called the guys at my work to rearrange my work schedule so that I didn't have to worry about it! Of course, I cried! :-) But I also couldn't stop smiling at the card... it was perfect for us! Here are the cards:
Then, I was scheduled to be in the nursery for the AM service (for which I was kind of glad - I don't know that I could have sat through a sermon about mothers without crying!) Anyway, as soon as I walked in, one of my closest friends here walked up to me and gave me a huge hug and told me "Happy Mother's Day." She told me that she had been thinking of me and praying for me all morning. It's so great to have compassionate friends! Several other women said, "Happy Mother's Day" to me as well, including both my mom & MIL. It just soothed my heart to know that even though all of my babies are in Heaven, I still am a mom... whether I get to hold my own babies here on earth or not! They definitely have it made, being in Heaven with Jesus!
I also got this rose on our bus route... all the moms riding the buses received roses.

Monday, I received this card that my mom made for me.
All in all, it was a wonderful Mother's Day, in spite of the circumstances! God is SO GOOD, and I have an AWESOME husband!
Well, that's about it for now! Thanks for bearing with me through this LOOOOONG post! Have a GREAT weekend!